I just realised that this one small word "excuse" is so dangerous word to me and us... Saying this word is so easy and make us to stay in the comfort zone... We always use this word without realise it when people said it out to you that, why you always use the excuses to save you from danger situation or doing something you need to do...
Thats happen to me, it always me saying "I can not do this do that", "It is so hard", "I am who I am", "I'm a lonely person, no one think about me", "This person do not wants to talk to me because I'm a boring person, so just ignore", "Why I can not be like them"," I'm acting this way because I'm from this kind of family" and that's more, but I can't think of it at the moment.. It is true, all these are always in my mind...
It is so frustrated that these excuses are always in my mind or saying it out... What I am saying is, these excuses take me away from the things I wanted to learn...You know, when I started my driving, I always make excuses to make it is not my fault or my mistakes.. My friend always telling me do not do this and that, but I always said plenty of excuses... You see how terrible it is, it always been my habit..!! Really bad.. =( Here I can see myself that I'm trying to make myself safe from getting caught and scold by my friend... When I know I can make these exuses, I found myself doing the wrong thing again because I can use the exuse again.... Can you see what I meant?
My friend also realised I doing it again with exuse again, then he talked to me after my driving and even during... He really taught me so so much that I cant imagine it... I'm really learn about myself more than I know about myself.... He even knows the reason behind it... >.< Okay, I tell you the reasons.... First thing exuse doesnt help you anything... Second thing is it will make you even weaker and last doesnt make you smarter...
Let me tell you a short story, there is a girl who is very lazy, her mother always call her comes down to cook with her mother... But she always make exuses by saying I don't want because I dont know how to cook or I have homework to do (dont have at all)... Her mother loves her so much that doesnt force her to cook but her mother always wanted to cook with her daughter and teach her to be independent.... Life continues, the girl went to overseas study and leaving alone with strangers.... During the moment, she starts to feel homesick especially her mother's homecooking, then she realised her mother is trying to teach her all along that she feels regret for not doing it... Now, she starts to preciate her mother even more... The end....
I hope the story really tell you something.... ^^ It means when you can learn something, you push it away because you have good exuses to cover it and because you are lazy to do it and learn something new... Do you know why people always said "If people can do this, you also can"? Well, in my opinion is true... I can say do not look down on yourself but look forward on what you can do to change.... Believe it yourself thats the important and work hard to change... God will always on your back when you fell, he will carry you and push you... He will reward you when you are doing your sweat out.... =)
Thanks for your time to read.... Sorry too long... >.<
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